It's not you, it's me.

That flippant phrase, "It's not you, it's me," typically applies to those painful one-sided breakups, where one person wants to end the relationship and the other wants to stay in but has no influence over the decision.

This COVID-19 world feels like a bad breakup every day – we cannot change the choices of someone unknowingly carrying the virus (estimated to be at least 1 in 4 of us), but we really wish we could.

Most of us do not think we are going to get the virus, or at least believe we will not be physically impacted by it – a belief based on some actual dat...